【คลาสเวิร์คช็อป】【Parenting Workshop】Become a better parent, start by getting closer to your true self September Taipei

The original price is NT$8,000. Register before the early bird deadline to enjoy a discount of NT$4,800! **September Class: 2025/9/12 (Friday), 9/19 (Friday), 9/26 (Friday), 10/3 (Friday) 10:00-12:00** **Class hours: Four classes, 8 hours in total** **Location: 4th Floor, No. 56, Xining North Road, Datong District, Taipei City (Dingai Culture)** https://www.dace.com.tw/wp-content/uploads/2024/04/%E6%88%90%E7%82%BA%E6%9B%B4%E5%A5%BD%E7%9A%84%E7%88%B6%E6%AF%8D-%E5%85%A7%E5%AE%B9%E5%9C%961_comp.jpg __**We all want to be what a "good mother/good father" should be**__ As new parents, we welcome the arrival of a new life with anticipation and anxiety. Even if we have made all kinds of preparations, we still keep thinking in our hearts - what else can I do for my child? From preparing for pregnancy, finding two lines on the test, hearing the fetal heartbeat through ultrasound for the first time, to actually holding the baby in your arms, watching them gradually crawl and walk, taking steps to curiously explore the world... In the blink of an eye, the little life that was originally as big as a pearl has become noisy in your daily life and has become the focus of many considerations. Is it very hard? Not only that! We have more worries, troubles, pressure, and gray hair. However, no matter how busy or tired we are, when we think about the fact that our children chose us to be their parents among many people and that we are everything to them - that desire born out of love will always push us to move forward. __**There are hundreds of parenting strategies on the market. Which one should I follow?**__ As children grow older, parenting issues become more complex and overwhelming. Not listening, unable to concentrate, too active, willful... Whenever these situations occur, in addition to searching the Internet for the opinions of well-known pediatricians, psychologists, parenting experts and even internet celebrities, one's own growth experience in the original family can easily become one of the solutions. “What would my parents do when similar problems occurred when I was a child?” "I don't like it when my parents come home and yell at me because things aren't going well at work..." "My parents rarely took the initiative to care about me. When I encountered problems as a child, I often didn't know what to do." … Using the original family as a template, this "experience-based parenting method of eliminating the dross and retaining the essence" does make many parents feel that they have optimized their parenting. However, the most common blind spot is that their children are different from themselves! For example, there is a mother who likes to hug her family, but her daughter has not been used to strong emotional expressions since she was a child. If she forces her daughter to respond enthusiastically at this time, she may be able to do it, but if this is not a behavior that reflects her daughter's true emotions, it will ultimately be just a formality. __**"Emotional education" is the most easily lost link in parent-child education**__ All parents hope that their children can surpass their parents. So what kind of education can preserve the children's uniqueness while also allowing them to more clearly receive the education that their parents want to give them? With nearly 30 years of experience in self-education and family education, we have found that using "feeling education" as the link between parent-child education is the key for parents to better exert their influence, and it is also the link that is most easily lost in modern times. __**What is sensory education?**__ Parents use their children’s actual feelings as teaching materials; children also use the feelings conveyed by their parents as a perspective to understand the world. Little children are like little animals. Their initial understanding of the world comes from their parents’ eyes, expressions, voices, body movements, etc., and most importantly────their parents’ feelings! Through your feelings, they gradually come to understand whether they can do it, what they can do, what kind of behavior will make their parents happy, and so on. For example: Fire is dangerous. In order to let children know not to play with fire, parents will deliberately show an angry expression and say "No!" at the same time. They also let the children know that it may be very painful to get burned after touching fire. At this time, they will need to show another very painful expression to let the children know that "it turns out that fire will hurt." __**We must re-examine our influence as parents**__ There are many parenting plans on the market. No matter how powerful the theory is, it still needs to return to "what the child actually feels and understands" in order to become a part of the child and have an impact. The emphasis of sensory education is that parents can experience and empathize with their children by getting closer to their true selves, and use what they actually feel as material for education, corresponding to concepts, so that they can further understand what impact these feelings will bring, and then expand their original cognition - this path of growth is the journey to growing up and maturity. Since this power comes from parents, as parents, you will need to better understand and get closer to your inner truth────this is exactly what the parenting workshop wants to bring to you! The teacher will also help everyone explore: what kind of difficulties may hinder this power, what may make you feel confused and accidentally fall into despair, and lead you to find the direction to continue working hard and moving forward. __**Course Outline**__ https://www.dace.com.tw/wp-content/uploads/2024/04/%E6%88%90%E7%82%BA%E6%9B%B4%E5%A5%BD%E7%9A%84%E7%88%B6%E6%AF%8D-%E7%AB%A0%E7%AF%80%E5%9C%96%E6%96%B0%E7%89%88-1-comp.jpg __**First lesson｜Explore yourself before and after becoming a parent through feeling guidance**__ Do you remember yourself before you became a parent? What’s the difference from now? As children grow older, the feeling that we had back then about how adorable our babies were may now be more often overwhelmed by the worries about their growth; as you gain more experience as a parent, it seems to be harder to be positive and happy? In the first class, we will lead everyone to learn what is sensory education from the various feelings in your heart, even the emotions. For example, if you often shout "I've had enough!" in your heart, follow the voice and clarify the needs and concerns that you have forgotten. https://www.dace.com.tw/wp-content/uploads/2024/04/%E6%88%90%E7%82%BA%E6%9B%B4%E5%A5%BD%E7%9A%84%E7%88%B6%E6%AF%8D-%E7%AB%A0%E7%AF%80%E5%9C%96%E6%96%B0%E7%89%88-2-comp.jpg __**Second lesson｜Understand the importance of emotional education for children from your own feelings**__ "After becoming a mother, I no longer have myself!" This is a common feeling among many mothers, and it may also be a thought that some fathers have had. Such feelings are indeed a transitional period that children will go through as they grow up, but as time goes by, they may really no longer be able to find themselves. "Self" should not become a victim of the role of "parent". To become a better parent, we must first find and know ourselves. If we do not first clarify what we value and what principles and values we have, it will be difficult for children to follow in life. In the end, they can only dance with the emotions of their parents, just like when parents are happy, they have the opportunity to eat more candy, and when they are unhappy, the children will shut up. In this class, the teacher will lead everyone to clarify and reposition the role relationship between parents and themselves, and then begin to collect your various feelings in different roles, and gradually get closer to your true self. https://www.dace.com.tw/wp-content/uploads/2024/04/%E6%88%90%E7%82%BA%E6%9B%B4%E5%A5%BD%E7%9A%84%E7%88%B6%E6%AF%8D-%E7%AB%A0%E7%AF%80%E5%9C%96%E6%96%B0%E7%89%88-3-comp.jpg __**Lesson 3｜Write a parenting script for you and your child**__ Our experiences in our original families often serve as the basis for raising the next generation. Although we know that children are different individuals from us, at least based on the ways we have experienced ourselves, we can more clearly distinguish what to retain and what to discard. In this course, we will use the content of the previous two lessons as material for how you should educate your children now. It is not a quick fix that treats the symptoms without addressing the root cause, but rather, it goes back to the feelings that children have after facing an event, and helps them reflect and think about what kind of self they like more. https://www.dace.com.tw/wp-content/uploads/2024/04/%E6%88%90%E7%82%BA%E6%9B%B4%E5%A5%BD%E7%9A%84%E7%88%B6%E6%AF%8D-%E7%AB%A0%E7%AF%80%E5%9C%964_comp.jpg __**Lesson 4｜Mastering the Principles of Parenting: Thinking and Methods to Grow in Synchrony with Children**__ In the last class, the teacher will provide the concept of principles so that parents can have criteria to measure their status when facing different situations and understand how to continuously improve and enhance. You will know more clearly what you should strive for, and even when you still encounter difficulties, you can still light the lamp of affirmation and hope for yourself and your children. __**This parenting workshop is for you:**__ 🎯 I don’t know what kind of parenting policy is right, I just know that I don’t want the lack and unhappiness in my original family to continue to happen to my children. 🎯 I feel like I have a lot of thoughts and ideas that need to be clarified, but I don’t know who to talk to, and my partner can’t discuss it either, and I don’t want to succumb to the ideas of most elders. 🎯 When facing children, there are always many conflicts and emotions without warning. Even if you have restrained yourself, it will still happen accidentally. 🎯 After becoming a mother, I knew I needed to grow, but I didn’t know what to grow in 🎯 I want to find a group of like-minded mother friends who can inspire growth together, but I don’t know where to find them. __**What will you learn from this parenting workshop?**__ ⭐ From discussing the troubles of raising children, I can see my own needs and concerns ⭐ Better understand the influence of your family of origin on yourself, and have the opportunity to stand at a different perspective and decide the role of these influences on yourself ⭐ Know how to find a set of parenting principles that suit your child ⭐ In the process of raising children, I began to learn how to love myself more ⭐ Through the learning and understanding of sensory education, we can better understand and empathize with children __**FAQ**__ **Q: What do I need to prepare for class?** A: Bring your current difficulties and problems in parenting:) If possible, write them down first, which will help with subsequent learning. **Q: What should I do if I need to take a leave for one of the four classes?** A: There are only four classes in total, and each class is unique. It is of course best to participate in the entire class! We care about the growth of every student, so if you really cannot attend full time, we hope you can let us know before registering. **Q: Will there be homework?** A: The teacher hopes to have a deeper understanding and help everyone during the one-month course. "Homework" will be a way to get to know you better. At the same time, the teacher also hopes that you can listen to your own voices and needs that you haven't heard for a long time through homework practice. **Q: If I don’t have children yet, can I still come to class?** A: Welcome! We spend a lot of time studying and preparing to enter the workplace after graduation, but rarely spend time deliberately learning how to be parents. Being able to prepare yourself in advance is very positive and makes people more hopeful! **Q: What should I do if I have to go to work during the day? Are there other times?** A: If you really want to participate in this topic but have some reservations due to work, you are welcome to call us first and we will have someone to discuss with you to see if there are any other possibilities! __**Instructor introduction:**__ **Hui Chih-wai** https://www.dace.com.tw/wp-content/uploads/2022/03/2021%E8%AC%9B%E5%B8%AB%E7%85%A7_%E6%99%BA%E5%AA%96-2_300.jpg "I started learning how to be a mother before I had a child!" With more than 20 years of experience in self-education and family education, Teacher Zhimei was ready to transform from "me" to "mother" before her child was born. Currently, she has a pair of children with distinct personalities. She understands the difficulties and challenges of being a mother who has to develop herself, work, have freedom, etc. How to transform the repetitive daily necessities of life into nutrients that expand and nourish herself has always been a topic that Teacher Zhimei continues to hone herself on. "Believe that children are the gift of life, and as parents we have the opportunity to become better people because of this gift." Teacher Zhimian hopes that through this workshop, she can help parents start from themselves, reduce various negative aspects of parenting, have more confidence and direction to accompany their children as they grow up, and like themselves better! 【Qualifications】 Former host of the National Educational Broadcasting Station's "Say Love" family education and parent-child education program Formerly a director of the Haohaohao Family Education and Culture Foundation, and currently a lecturer Teacher of Dingai Culture's "Self-Education", "Emotional Management", "Youth Self-Growth" and other related courses Certified analyst of "Heart-to-Heart Advantage Development Model HBDI" of Herman International, USA Invited to give lectures at Taipei Family Education Center and various colleges and universities, specializing in topics such as parent-child education, family relationships, communication and expression, youth consultation and counseling, self-growth, etc. Exclusive interview with Mom and Baby Magazine on June 12, 2019: [Communication on “grandparenting”. Let children grow up with double the love】