Magazine No.122 Organize and start again | Small Days

How we learn to say goodbye My friend Y left us a few days ago and went to heaven to become an angel. It was only a short year from the time he learned about his unbearable illness to the time he actually left us. In the upcoming farewell ceremony, mutual friends joined the group closely to sort out the traces left by her during her lifetime. Among them were short texts, images, sounds, laughter and thoughts. In the process of sorting, we sorted out the sadness and archived the memories. , only to realize that the things a person can leave behind can only be so much, but also only so little. The plastic board that your classmates wrote to you when you graduated from high school (don’t you even know if it’s still popular on campus?); the paper bags that you thought you’d use next time you went shopping but silently proliferated; the love letters you fell in love with your exes; or the social messages There are too many tracking relationships in the group, and the things that have been cherished have become the most difficult part of life. I am wandering between letting go and not giving up. The objects have become the basis of memory. I am deeply afraid that after saying goodbye, I will seem to forget it. As a result, I gradually became a person who was not good at organizing. In this issue, we start from the people whose job is to organize: Zhou Qianru, the director of the National Library Collection Section who loves and cherishes books, uses her professional skills to establish order in the sea of books; the female student from Beiyi University who can organize exam preparation knowledge into clear subject notes Papaya; and Blair, a professional organizer who uses the process of organizing to restore her mood to peace. The editorial department also walked into the living spaces of four people who are good at organizing: the housewife surnamed Lin who confidently claims that she already has the ideal kitchen; the red house who tries to make the interior feel like the outdoors; the designer Bede who is brave enough to seek changes in the space; There is also Amos, which places classic furniture precisely and can be called a Chiayi city boy. In addition to practical analysis, how should we deal with interpersonal relationships and the soul? The editorial department has invited Sister Danni, who has worked hard to persuade the bitches and bitches in the world to escape from the misery of human relationships, as well as her partners Xiao Lai and Ji Sihao, to teach everyone how to bravely say goodbye to a relationship that does not belong to you. Actor Yuan Aifei, who chose to move away from the city to the mountains with her husband, will share with everyone her process of practicing letting go from a spiritual state of abundance. Finally, fortunately, it ends with an article by writer Xiao Yihui. For writers, writing is recording and organizing, and it is also a farewell. I remember it very well. It was in the early spring of a certain year in the School of Liberal Arts. I held a reading party with my classmates in the department. The senior who was reading the book chose "Seven Days After My Father" by Liu Zijie. The senior said that he believed that Liu Zijie cried while writing. I finished the article, but I was only a freshman at that time. At such an age where I was not afraid of death, I didn’t know that the tears between the lines were real. The original title was: Organize, say goodbye, and then start again. It was only after I held a memorial party for Y at home with my friends, drank the plum wine we brewed last year, played with cats, played board games, and did the things Y loved during his lifetime that I discovered the original Sadness can also be sorted out with a smile. Perhaps the sorting out is never to say goodbye, but to let us remember it forever. So I had a sudden thought and decided to remove the word "farewell". The last sentence of Liu Zijie's "Seven Days After My Father" is written like this: "Please gather your emotions, we are about to land." I want to add a few words to the last sentence of the story: "I will always remember that. I'm leaving—" Small day calendar one thing Desserts that heal spring afternoons are a recipe savior that even novices can master The old taste experienced through time will not be spared even if the journey is tiring Start this year with one sentence a day Live where people should live My journey to the mountains and seas of Green Island Enjoy the carnival and experience the infinite charm of the Venice Mask Festival Illustrator's creative diary Rainy: A cup of coffee once relieved my worries, and I used illustrations to express my gratitude. Column Ma Shifang: Do you want to live with 100,000 CDs? Chen Xue: Less is more talk Zhou Suzong: A literati's poetic heart is restrained in his boldness, and he writes about all things in the world and all aspects of life in Taiwanese poetry. cover story Organize and Reset Part 1 Organizer in life It is my luck and happiness to establish order in the vast sea of books. Repeated practice, sorting out and quenching the chain to create a stable self No longer let material things occupy the mind and start a quiet life with a subtractive life. Part 2 Organize your living space Share with your children and let the changes in life become the scenery on display Allowing objects to grow into the texture of life is the ideal state for collectors Integrate camping into daily life and buy high-end equipment without heartache Organizing is a sense of responsibility. Only by having the courage to give up can you live a more focused life. Part 3 Say goodbye and start again— Hit the wall and kick the iron plate as much as you want. When it hurts enough, that’s the beginning of recovery. Only by practicing letting go of unsuitable materials and relationships can you truly see and grow yourself. You are so like you Tu ressembles tellement à toi-même Renting a house is a gesture Stack objects to create a room that understands companionship Stores we like The passion for coffee and picture books brings together the charming scenery of the sock-making town snack scenery Hally Chen: Eat the most common Taiwanese food in the alleys of Taipei’s most foreign-style residential areas