【คลาสเวิร์คช็อป】【Confidence Expression Course】Speak for Yourself Taipei May

https://www.dace.com.tw/wp-content/uploads/2024/03/%E7%82%BA%E8%87%AA%E5%B7%B1%E8%AA%AA%E8%A9%B1-%E5%85%A7%E5%AE%B9%E5%9C%962.jpg Topic 1: Don’t wrong yourself because you are afraid of what others will think | 5/11 (Saturday) 10:00 - 12:00 Topic 2: No more unclear words | 5/18 (Saturday) 10:00 - 12:00 __**Original price is RMB 1,000, early bird discount is RMB 600**__ "Speaking for yourself" sounds simple. Just speak your mind. But many times, what we think is a simple way of expressing ourselves turns out to be extremely difficult. Because I care about what others think, I am in a dilemma and can never find a suitable entry point to express my thoughts. There are many emotions in my heart. What I want to say may hurt others, but I feel that it is my true thought. I am entangled in my heart again and again, and the cold war becomes the final way of expression. When I have different opinions from the other party, I worry that it is my own problem, so I often remain silent and do not speak out. If you take the initiative to do something, you will not explain your intentions behind it. Because you are worried that others will think you are taking credit, you often feel that you are not getting the response you deserve. In fact, there are times when I try to express, but my expression is not clear and I am misunderstood. If I want to explain, I am considered to be justifying, so I don’t want to express more and more. https://www.dace.com.tw/wp-content/uploads/2024/03/%E7%82%BA%E8%87%AA%E5%B7%B1%E8%AA%AA%E8%A9%B1-%E5%85%A7%E5%AE%B9%E5%9C%961.jpg When I can't express myself well, my inner concerns are very real, and I often have thoughts for others. No matter what the reason is, if there is no way to express it well and clearly, the result is often not what we expected. For example, at work, you think that other people’s opinions are better than your own, so you don’t express your own thoughts. Over time, you will be considered incompetent by others, and you will not entrust yourself with important responsibilities; in relationships, because you are concerned about other people’s thoughts and feelings, Therefore, if you don't speak your mind, you will often be misunderstood and your inner needs will be ignored. Compared with the difficulty of expressing, every time I have to bear such a negative impact because I cannot express myself well and speak for myself, I feel even more aggrieved and painful. In fact, we can do this: take care of our concerns and thoughts when expressing ourselves, and at the same time speak for ourselves well. __**The "Speak for Yourself" series of lectures focuses on different topics to help students overcome expression problems from different difficulties and then be able to speak for themselves.**__ If we have the correct concepts and ability to express, we will be able to overcome the problem of expression step by step. Through correct positioning, we can transform our worries or concerns when expressing into motivation for practicing expression, so that we can clearly express our thoughts and then be able to speak for ourselves. https://www.dace.com.tw/wp-content/uploads/2024/03/%E7%82%BA%E8%87%AA%E5%B7%B1%E8%AA%AA%E8%A9%B1-%E5%85%A7%E5%AE%B9%E5%9C%963.jpg Whenever you talk, other people's eyes and reactions bring great pressure, because you don't know what the other person thinks, or you always feel that the other person doesn't like it. Worry that what you say is not good enough; or that if you express different thoughts, the other person will think it is directed at him, and then feel disgusted with you; sometimes, even if it is your true inner feeling, you are afraid of hurting others, so you choose not to explain. These worries have become a wall in expression. Even if I try to express myself, I will be very careful and roundabout, and my attitude towards expression becomes very awkward. I may even adjust my words while speaking because I care too much about other people's opinions. In the end, it was considered that the statement was repeated. These make the other party unable to understand what you really want to express, and then your true thoughts and intentions are misunderstood. __**As time goes by, I become less and less willing to say it, but more and more others misunderstand me and I feel aggrieved.**__ In particular, I find that sometimes I am unable to say what I should say and fight for the rights I deserve; I often have to suppress my true inner feelings or say things that are against my will; because I do not express myself, I am regarded as not being committed and involved; others will ignore me. needs, oneself seem to be the unimportant person. Because I am not good at expressing myself, and I have to aggrieve myself, I gradually have a lot of emotions in my heart, and I don’t like myself. https://www.dace.com.tw/wp-content/uploads/2020/08/0427%E7%8B%82%E8%AC%9B%E5%BA%A7%E7%85%A7%E7%89%87MCC09609-scaled-e1618570654544.jpg __**This lecture will be an opportunity for you to learn to express yourself and not let yourself feel wronged!**__ The lecture will help students know how to face the dilemma of "being afraid of what others think but not knowing how to express it". It is normal to care about other people's thoughts. What is important is how to correctly view the thoughts expressed by others about oneself, to be able to transform other people's thoughts into help in adjusting one's expression, and to know how to adjust one of the directions. Through continuous practice, and then through After others respond and then correct it, you will gradually be able to express it clearly and speak for yourself! __**What will you learn?**__ **★ Know the precious and important parts of yourself** **★ Find the criteria for viewing other people’s evaluations** **★ Solve the inner demon of fear of others’ evaluation** **★ Self-check after expressing so that you can express better next time** **★ How to practice expression correctly** __**Who is suitable for this expression course?**__ **1. Express lack of confidence** **2. Not good at expressing and often suppressing feelings and thoughts** **3. Have thoughts and feelings but don’t know how to express them** **4. Hesitant to speak when others evaluate him** **5. Because I can’t express myself well, I often feel wronged in my relationships with others.** __**Instructors:**__ **Zhu Yuyang** https://www.dace.com.tw/wp-content/uploads/2021/01/2021%E9%BC%8E%E6%84%9B%E7%85%A7_%E6%AF%93%E6%8F%9A_300.jpg __"The purpose of expression is to fully present one's inner self."__ He has rich experience across fields: sports players, drama performances, self-education, keynote speeches, corporate training, and interview coaching, which has honed his extraordinary expression skills. He is good at using approachable cases and practical exercises to help students feel less nervous about expressing themselves and even enjoy them. Qualifications: ■ Director of Haohaohao Family Education and Culture Foundation ■ Lecturer at the Ministry of Education of Dingai Cultural Affairs ■ The first advisory committee member of the Career Development Group of the Youth Development Agency of the Ministry of Education ■ Host of the National Educational Broadcasting Station’s “Speaking of Love” program ■ Acting instructor of "Classic Fashion Drama Academy" course ■ American "HBDI® Whole Brain Strengths Development Model" certified analyst ■ Specialty topics: communication and negotiation, oral expression, self-growth, work value